Do You Go Down?

here’s an ironic little fact…99% of men won’t date a girl who doesn’t give oral sex, and yet 99% of men don’t know how to go down properly on a lady! can you say “hmmm…..” ??

i’m not here to offer you a lesson on cunnilingus – there’s tons of stuff out there for you to read. and if there’s a man who has created an e-book on oral sex that’s half as good as mine, then you should definitely buy it!   : )

FURTHERMORE – i do think women are accountable and need to lose some inhibition when it comes to providing feedback for their men…whether you tell them what they’re doing right, or where they should move their tongue, or just making the right kinds of noises to assure them you’re enjoying yourself.  (There’s a whole scene about this in the AWESOME movie “Chasing Amy.”)

BUT – if you’re a guy and the breadth of your oral sex education is limited to porn, you can be 99% sure that you’re just not doing it right! If you believe your woman cums within 30 seconds of you going down on her…you are wrong! If you think the best way to go down is to start flickering away at 100 mph…you are wrong!

Cunnilingus – like blow jobs – is a journey. Start off slow…build it up…LISTEN to how she is reacting to your tongue.

i CARE about my blow jobs..do you care about the time you spend down there on your woman? If you do, ask her if you’re doing it right. And listen to what she says.