The Best Way to Give Head

I get this question a LOT. I mean every day…what’s the best way to give head?

The fact is, there are many “best ways” to give head. Most of them depend on who you are with. Because the feedback you receive from your man – via body language, body movement, sounds, etc – will tell you EXACTLY what you need to do to please him. 

These factors also apply to what you shouldn’t do!  I’m a big fan of experimenting…I might let my finger or my tongue do a little exploring to test a man’s interest or receptiveness to say, for example, perineum stimulation. It’s pretty easy to tell if i man digs action in that area…if you touch it and he tenses up – probably not a good idea to proceed further! but if he lets out a big pleasurable gasp (!), well then you know you’ve hit new territory that may be worth exploring.

So what’s the best way to give head? PAY ATTENTION!  Go with the feedback that he’s providing you with! If you’re a good communicator you can even inject a “oh, you like that huh?” here and there. That kind of vocalized positive reinforcement is a great psychological trick for both of you.

I emphasize this idea in my book, Blow Him Away: An Escort’s Guide to Giving Exceptional Head. If you think you can just dive in and do your own thing…you are mistaken! Part of what makes my blow jobs so memorable – so $$$ worthy – is how in tuned I stay with the man I’m going down on. Sure, I can fake a great blow job – I have a LOT of experience giving head! But if you’re just learning, or refining your technique, the best way to give head is to listen and feel how your man is reacting to each little step you take and build on that.

If you just take that piece of advice alone…you are a million miles ahead of the rest!